There’s always a way to turn your life around. We are always only one decision away from changing our lives.
Sometimes we find ourselves in a rut. And the world doesn’t favour our best interests. World best seller book ‘The Secret’ tells us that we can manifest our destiny by thinking about how it would feel to have certain things. So I spent hours with my head down concentrating on that mansion at the sea and a massive bank balance but alas! My millions haven’t arrived yet.
Then I thought, what am I actively doing to help my situation? How much effort am I actually putting in to make things work? To make my life better? When opportunity knocks, Am I ready and waiting to invite it in? Am I even home? Do I even hear that doorbell?
If you are too busy for change and for yourself, then you are basically telling the universe to come back later. We can’t just pray/ask for something good, and then when it arrives (even the smallest hint), ignore and put in on the ‘back-burner’. If our heads are too far in the clouds (or deep in paperwork, spreadsheets, bills, stress), we give up the ability to see the small steps to change and opportunity.
For example, If you want to quit your job and start working for yourself. And then some one gives you an opportunity to jump in on a free online course about starting a small business, and you can’t do it because you have too much work to get done… You’ve pretty much shut the door on the very opportunity you asked for in the first place. You’ve told the universe “umm…actually…no I really don’t want that”.
Commitment to your goals and committing your energy to something is what will make it grow. So if you commit your energy to hating your job, that hate will grow too. But if you commit your energy into finding a way to make money from something you love to do, opportunities will keep presenting themselves until you find the right one. But you have to look to find and you have to be conscious about your goals.
If you don’t know where you are going, how are you going to get there?
The first step is to work out where you would like to be, and how you would like to feel. And Write that shit down!. List a few goals. They do not need to be set in concrete, they will most certainly change and evolve as you do.
The next step is to do a bit of research. On the net, in person, in books. What are other people doing? What’s available to me? Who do I know that can help? What are my strengths and passions and how could they be turned into a project? You can have a million ideas and it’s totally ok to research all of them. Vocalise your goals to other people, tell everyone around you. You’ll keep reminding yourself of where you are going and someone might know someone who may be able to help you in some way. Actively looking, researching, working on and talking about goals sends a message to the universe that you are serious about change. It is committing your energy a 1000 times more than just thinking about it.
When the opportunities come, however small, make sure you are available to recognise them. Make sure you are ready to take them on, make sure you have the ability to commit to the change you asked for.
Side note, I’ve been chatting to some people to help them find purpose and work out what they are passionate about and how they can create more opportunities for themselves and start investing energy inward. We bounce business ideas, share tips and work it all out together. If you need some support with making a positive change. Please feel free to get in contact with me.
Your comments are very welcome…
Happy Friday Everyone 🙂